Dream about defending myself means strength. You are feeling overwhelmed and out of control. You feel that you are above her or him. This dream is an indication for a relationship or a man in your life. You are opening yourself up to a new situation and allowing yourself to be vulnerable.
Defending myself dream symbolises love and passion. Fertility, life, softness and warmth. Someone has power over you and are making you do things that you do not necessarily want to do. It is an indication for a long lasting relationship. You are feeling ashamed about something.
If you dreamt about defending myself:
But it also urges you to take steps to move ahead with the partnership in such a way that you feel as though you are moving into a new adventure. There is a certain balance that needs to be struck, and a certain kind of dance that you would both do well to learn.