Dream about big fat spiders stands for the negative and repressed aspect as yourself. You are feeling withdrawn or overly judgmental. You are feeling lazy or envious. Your dream is unfortunately an admonition for suppression of your cold feelings. Perhaps you have set unrealistic goals for yourself and you are just setting yourself up for failure.
Big fat spiders dream states your ability to control you animalistic rages and anger. You are goal-oriented and do not let anything get in your way of your success. You are too easily led or too easily influenced. Your dream is a sign for the things that are just outside of your grasp or reach. You are depending too much on others for their help.
If you dreamt about big fat spiders:
But actually this could mean that you get to fall even more deeply in love than you would have otherwise. Somehow it shows that you are vulnerable and human after all, when your brand new partner may have actually placed you on a pedestal.