Dream about harvesting tomatoes is a sign for death, the underworld and the subconscious. Your every move is being scrutinized. You do not ask for much to make you happy. Your dream expresses the material world and physical plane. You have relapsed back to your old habits and ways.
Harvesting tomatoes dream is sometimes guidance, direction and unification. You need to slow down and enjoy the moment. It is time to reevaluate your goals. The dream is a symbol for a past memory. You may be feeling undervalued or under appreciated.
If you dreamt about harvesting tomatoes:
For some reason you both seem to be misunderstanding each other. There could also be a degree of stubbornness involved in this, as well. You can both stick rigidly to your points of view, but this will not bring you any closer. Only if you are both willing to truly listen, will this matter be resolved.