Dream about loads of cats signifies fear of commitment and loss of independence. You may not be feeling grounded or safe. You may be feeling limited. The dream refers to your rejected or shameful emotions. You are ready to commit to a long term relationship or project.
Loads of cats dream is about a lack of motivation or inspiration. You do not care what other people think of you. You are overextending yourself to others and are not paying enough attention to your own needs. This is sadly a warning for a loss of innocence or a fall from grace. Perhaps you need to slow down before you hit disaster.
If you dreamt about loads of cats:
The nature of the hurt may not even have been that bad, but for some reason you feel guilty. Use this time to start a new chapter in your relationship, and learn to laugh freely with each other again.