Dream about trying to light candle signals someone or something is trying to get your attention. You need to be more selfless and reach out to others in their time of need. You are knocking-on or insulting something or someone. The dream is a metaphor for some anger issues. You are driving people away or turning them off.
Trying to light candle dream points at issues of codependency. You are not using your head and your better judgment. You may be too proud to ask for help. It is an indication for issues and feelings that you have not dealt with. Your friend is not being supportive.
If you dreamt about trying to light candle:
There is no sense getting angry with the opposition and fighting them. You won’t be able to beat them so you might as well join them. This is a time for you to make peace and find ways in which you are similar instead of the ways you are different.